I am bowled over by a new thought each day...these thoughts are of various colour, shape, size and weight! Their power is such they compel me to key them in...but then there is also procrastination!
Friday, December 5, 2008
Wednesday, June 11, 2008
Rush hour
Thursday, April 10, 2008
In Hyderabad...
Thursday, March 13, 2008
Water Water Everywhere....
It was the day before my birthday. I went shopping with hubby and in-laws. As the day closed our eight hands started to pain - no we aren't the types who walk on hand - but the sheer weight of the shopping bags...
We started our long trip back home. Four of us crammed in an auto with our bodies and the bags. There was hardy any more place for anything else.
After numerous red lights and traffic jams the destination was in sight. While 'de-auto-ing' we realized our legs had gone numb. It was difficult to stand and take steps...so we decided to wait a couple of minutes before moving into the building.
Chit chat was on when one lady staying on the ground floor of our building came rushing and asked "Are you staying in F4?" (We hardly know anyone in this building given our office timings!)
On receiving an affirmative reply she said, "you left some water taps running and the water is flowing out!!" I could not create a clear picture of the situation in my mind and just kept walking towards the lift lobby. Just as I stepped into the lobby the whole thing struck hard! Water had reached the ground floor all the way from our fourth floor flat!
"S***!!" was all that came to my mind. I opened the lift door and as I was moving in, water droplets fell on my head....I was terrified of what would have happened inside the flat!
We opened the door and walked into a pool of water...it was everywhere...originated in the kitchen and moved to the hall and then negotiated a small turn and flooded the guest room.
Instinctively four of us started to clean up with whatever we could lay our hands on...we put on the fans in full speed, opened all the windows for free flow of air and were trying to push the water out of our home.
After half an hour of hard work we were able to clear most of the water and waited for the rest to dry off.
Phew!! What a day it turned out to be....it started with a drought - there was no water in the morning and we had to run around to get it (which resulted in the open tap) and in the evening we had to drive it out of our home!
Friday, February 29, 2008
Leap Year!!


Thirty days hath September,
April, June and November;
All the rest have thirty-one
Save February, she alone
Hath eight days and a score
Til leap year gives her one day more.
February 29th is a day when some are happy as well as not! you will be saying that whats so special about this...every other day brings with it its share of joy and tear? Well, they are happy because finally their birthday returned and sad because it doesnt every year!
This is a special day for anyone...employers feel good they wont have to pay employees for this one day! Employees feel virtuous having provided voluntary services :)
There is a host of things assosiated with the leap year. Let me add a couple of links here which store some interesting information on leap year. Hope you have a great time reading them.
http://www.leapyearday.com/hr/about.html
http://www.mystro.com/feb29today.htm
Also would like to wish a Happy Birthday to all the leap day babies and specially to our friend KJM who turns 7 today :)
Could not miss out on this opportunity to post on the leap day :D
Thursday, February 7, 2008
The Flight
are jotted down,
With flawless ease
on this paper brown
I have given them
the pleasing right -
To rise above
and soar in flight
They keep on flying
in solitude
Where besides me
none else intrude...
There are a bunch of them....maybe they will at last be read by someone else!
Saturday, January 26, 2008
CUBED!

Friends contributed a lot to the dream and so did the rightly-so idiot-box. Then there were titanic influences of the Holly-n-Bolly-wood. There was no escape from those spacious reception, state-of-the-art buildings, lavish interiors and to go with that well groomed people, crisp dresses and currency of course! Everything and everyone seemed to pronounce the same verdict – if you are not part of that lot, you have not achieved a thing in life.
“Tong” – a stroke of luck and I found myself receiving an appointment letter from one of those coveted companies housed in one of those state-of-the-art buildings. Life changed. Colleagues in the old office looked up at me with renewed reverence. Well, I was the chosen one for the big leap. I was happy. More dreams were now hovering on the edge.
Day one and I felt lost. So many faces – all new, some tensed, some carefree, some angry, some happy. And I was confused and terrified dwarfed by the hugeness.
After some looking around I found the place – the much dreamt cube - my cube – and I was happy again. At last, a corner to myself. I had lots of plans to make this corner my own. Lot of things needed to be done...
Half month down the line, I was ready with the environment. Sitting snugly in a corner was my pet stuffed monkey – two pictures of the family, a small cactus, one fancy coffee mug, a designer water bottle and a laughing Buddha to take care of my luck in this new world.
The neighbouring cubites were curious about my preparations. Some just looked, some smiled and some talked. Oblivious to all my collection kept growing each day.
With ‘new joinee’ tag now beginning to fade, work pressure slowly started piling up. Every day the log off time seemed to drift away in the night. The long calls, deadlines, performance and anonymity.
Lost appetite, lost food, lost friends, lost time, lost my-self. The two day weekends transformed into extended sleep hours. Irritated, short tempered, depressed – that’s what I became. Somehow the thought of returning to the cubicle everyday was repulsive – but no option – I had chosen it!
It was my dream which turned into a nightmare...I wished to be in a beautiful cube and ended up being cubed!!
Wednesday, January 9, 2008
Captivating Kodai
Kodaikanal is a small hill station in Tamil Nadu. It is situated at an altitude of about 2,133-m high and covers an area of 21.45-sq-km with a population of around 40,000 whose prime occupation is agriculture and tourism.
We had a chance to visit this lovely place last weekend. Though winter is not a 'season' to visit the town this season has its own charm.
We took a train from Chennai to a small station called Kodai road where we landed in the early hours of Saturday. There was a car to pick us up from there. The journey through the twining roads on the mountain was a beauty. There were patches where we moved through the clouds which seemed trapped in the valley!
Considering we stay in Chennai the drop in temperature was huge for us. Added to it was the fact that when we landed in Kodai - as it is fondly called -it started to rain. We were shuddering and went straight up to our room in the resort and under the blanket!
In the afternoon the rain stopped for some time and we took a chance to go around the town. The narrow roads went up and down like a serpent. We could see the clouds covering the ends of the roads and the top of the mountains! And there were chocolates....and chocolates...everywhere every shop had an offering of homemade delicious chocolates rich with fruits and nuts...yummmm!
Sunday was true to its name and came along with the Sun. It was a bright, sunny, crispy and cold morning. We went out on a full day tour along with others from the resort. There are so many beautiful and breadth taking views of the valley and we kept moving from one to the other. Croaker's walk, Green valley view, pillar rocks, pine forest, lake view, the shanti valley, palani mountain view and a couple of temples and park filled our day, heart and mind. The day ended on the Kodai Lake where we hired a shikara and went for a ride.
Monday morning was equally good and we thought of going for some trekking. We saw a 500 year old tree on the way...still standing strong. The first place we went that day was Pambar Falls. To reach that one needs to go across a wall from the road and then keep going downhill for sometime till you see the wonderful cascading water body. We had to walk across the water rather hop over the boulders and stones. Once on the other side we realised we were in the forest proper!! The realisation was a chilling one. I asked the guide if there were any animals in there. He coolly said that there are mostly bison in the forest which wouldn’t come out during day and there are a few cheetahs. I was glad he told me! Then after a pause the guide went on to reveal that there are lots of pythons but no other poisonous snakes!! I couldn’t thank him enough for the information to which he grinned and said "But you don’t worry madam".
The track continued and after countless hurdles we reached another part of the cascading water body but here it was called the Vettakanal Falls - named after the village it flowed in. Next to that was a cave called the Lion's cave. It seems a couple of years ago a cheetah was staying there with its cubs. Once the cheetah wandered into one of the villages from where the forest officials captured it and sent it to the Vandaloor Zoo in Chennai. However, the cubs were still in the forest.
That was all to see there and we started to backtrack. Once on the road we felt relieved that we returned without meeting either the cheetah or the python :)
The next destination was a place called the Dolphin's nose. That’s one piece of rock hanging from the mountain top and gives a breadth taking view. But the catch was the steep downhill road that needed to be crossed to reach that spot. The road was full of big rocks, small stones, mud patches and tree roots. It was about a kilometre long stretch and took about an hour to reach the point. But we were beaten in the race by the clouds who suddenly appeared from nowhere and settled in the mountains. Yet the place was beautiful and scary. There was also an Echo point nearby. We tried some names but probably the clouds ate up our words :)
When we started to comeback we realised that the going downhill was the easiest thing we did that morning! It took a lot of time and lot of pauses before we reached our car.
That evening was our train to Chennai and we bid good bye to captivating Kodai.
Thursday, December 27, 2007
Taare Zameen Par
Tuesday, December 18, 2007
Sleeper in the Bus

Well here is the twist! This was no ordinary bus. This is some vehicle I had been wanting to travel in, for quite a few months now. Let me start the story from the beginning...
Couple of months back my uncle had come to visit Chennai among other places in the south of India. They were to travel to Bangalore from here. They chose to travel by bus – the sleeper bus! This was the first time I heard of the concept. I, however, could not visualise how it would be in reality. So had to wait till the day when they would board the bus.
“WOW”... that’s what I said after peeking into the bus. It was a very tempting thing. A never before idea! Immediately I wanted to travel in one of those and started pestering my hubby to plan a trip to Bangalore :)
And finally, last Wednesday it was the moment! We were travelling to Bangalore – and in a SLEEPER BUS :) I stepped in with a big grin pasted on my face.
These buses have two tiers of bed arranged as 2-1. We had the first two-seater on the upper bunk. Climbing up was a bit of adventure given my no-gym structure. But it was worth the effort. There were pillows tucked under the cover and also a soft warm blanket. The AC above could be adjusted to suit our needs and also there was a curtain to shut out the rest of the bus.
It was such a different feeling. Lying under the blanket I could see the whole city pass by. The same roads which I traversed hundred times a day for various work just moved by. I could see the lower portions of the flyover which otherwise go unnoticed; the top of the skyscrapers; the street lights; the billboards; the sky... It was like looking at the world from a different angle. Unfortunately it was very late in the night and not many vehicle or people were on the road. I’m sure that would also look different when seen from under.
The excitement kept me awake till there was nothing else to see outside other than the darkness....
Thursday, December 6, 2007
Mera Bharat Mahan

Respect
In the east (Bengal) to show respect and to ask for blessings one touches the feet of elders, every time. In the north (Punjab/Delhi) and in the south (Tamil Nadu) this seems optional. I have seen people in the north just bend a bit and mostly with the left hand try and touch the knee :)
Religious tradition
It is a custom to cover the head when going to a temple in both east and north. However covering ones head is considered bad and against the religion in the south.
Marriage
In the east the groom gets to wear the ‘topor’ which is a type of hat and the bride has her head covered and a tiara like ‘mukut’ at the time of marriage – however the face remains visible. In the north the groom’s face is covered by a ‘sehra’ – string of flowers and a ‘pagadi’ turban on the head. The bride has her head and face covered with the ‘chunri’ – a decorated piece of clothing. Unlike these, in south both the bride and the groom are not required to cover their head or face.
Food
This is the most interesting section :)
East and south live on rice while north prefers chapati/roti. Then again in south I have seen people struggle with dry tomato rice or lemon rice with a dry side-dish an effort similar to the north or east where the chapati is eaten with dry side dish. Food at any marriage or similar function in south and part of north is essentially vegetarian while the east feasts on non-vegetarian food.
Tuesday, November 27, 2007
Ouch!
The room felt colder than outside. I asked the nurse to increase the room temperature but that didn’t give rise to the temperature inside me.
I was scared and was waiting for my husband to be there besides me. The doc probably sensed that and told its okay to wait for him. But as always I had to show that I was “brave” and so I asked the doc to go on.
As the anaesthetic injection started its activity in my mouth my husband walked in. I was relieved, relax and ready.
Oh these dentists talk so much! But in a way that helps...he told me for the umpteenth time that there would be no pain just some pressure and that everything would be all right....and he started tugging and pulling...huff and puff.... and then with a child like happiness the doc said to my husband “She didn’t know it”....and I knew that the bloody tooth was out. He stitched up my gum and I was ready to be released.
Now I sat there wondering what’s stored next...reassured that nothing much is going to happen I was back home.
Food became an object of reverence. Though I was hungry I couldn’t eat much.
As I woke up next morning I found my face had doubled on the right side! Oh my my! ...how odd it looked and how bad was the pain.
Everyone around me (though were aware of the pain) couldn’t suppress a chuckle at the sight. Some even said I look like some cartoon character – though couldn’t specify which one!
It’s the third day today but am yet to be 100% cured...hoping all’s well soon and I am back to being myself.
Monday, November 19, 2007
Eternal Truth
When I spoke of this to my husband and friends they said "Yeh, that’s already known to us. What took you so long to understand?"
That set me thinking, why was I amazed by this thought NOW? This is what has been happening ever since I was born. This is what has been told to me a zillion times "study well if you want to do something in life, this is just one time you got". But then all those statements made their mark only now. Now, when half the time is already wasted, now when life is transformed into a boring rigmarole - home to office to home? Why now?
Probably that’s the key, my life. The way it’s shaping up or rather not :) the things that I wanted to do but never got around to do; the things I wanted to accomplish but never had the courage.
Or perhaps it’s the deep influence of our movies, where each actor plays a different character and goes through its full life story a different one each time. Being the kind of dreamer that I am I conjured that there will be a different character to be played after this one is over...may be.
Whatever it is, just as the saying goes its better late than never! This realisation made me think about life and what can be done now to make it worthwhile. The first in the direction is to let the world know what goes on in my mind :) and this is the place I have chosen.